Mary Anne Headlee
September 20, 1936 - October 15, 2019
Mary Anne Headlee Ciocca passed away Oct. 15. She is formerly of Enid, Okla., born Sept. 20, 1936, daughter to Paul and Helene Headlee. She will be laid to rest next to her mother and father at Memorial Park Cemetery, Saturday, Nov. 9, 2019, at 3 p.m.
Mary Anne graduated from Enid High School in 1954 and attended University of Oklahoma, then graduating from College of Marin, Calif. She left with several of her girlfriends for fun and adventure, moving to San Francisco Bay Area where she met and married Air Force Lt. Nathan L. Patterson. They spent two years in North Africa and returned to the Bay Area where he preceded her in death in 1961 due to a tragic Air Force plane accident. She then remarried Richard H. Madden who preceded her in death in 2007, and David Ciocca who passed away in 1973. She spent many years living in Sausalito, Calif., where she was a landlord to her many properties, then lived her retiring years in a historic house in Astoria, Ore., while touring the world whenever she could. She enjoyed Astoria's sea air, small town feel, and how much it reminded her of Sausalito when she first moved there.
Mary Anne is survived by her three children, Roe Patterson of Fairfield, Calif., Seth Patterson of Boulder, Colo., and Caroline Madden of Cazadero, Calif., and six grandchildren.
Flowers may be sent to Memorial Park Cemetery, Enid Okla. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Enid High School thru the Enid Public Schools Foundation at:
Published on November 8, 2019


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Patsy Patterson
Nov 09, 2019
Although Anne and I were married to Patterson's we always lived far apart but from my first meeting her I knew she was special. I am so sorry for your loss and know you will miss this beautiful Mom. My God comfort each of you knowing He knows best. Love, Aunt Patsy
Devon Cowan
Nov 07, 2019
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