Melissa Jean McFarland


A memorial service for Melissa "Missy" Jean McFarland will be 6:00 p.m. Aug. 12th at Cherokee Strip Baptist Association, 2108 E. Maine St, Enid, OK 73701, with Pastor Superintendent D.L. Norwood officiating.
Melissa was born June 19th, 1962, to David and Roberta Smart and left this earth August 4th, 2019.
Missy loved summer days, cookouts, OU football and campfires, but above all she loved her family and friends. Melissa had a brilliant sense of humor and could make anyone laugh at any given moment, bringing many smiles to many faces.
In 1979 she married Charles Watkins and later gave birth to her son, David Watkins, and daughter, Amanda Watkins. She was a cook for many years and loved doing so. In 1999, she remarried to Kenneth McFarland, whom she loved dearly.
She was preceded in death by her sister, Sue Ann Smart; father, David Lee Smart; and son, Ronnie Robinson.
Melissa is survived by her mother, Roberta Smart; sisters, Linda, Laurie and Mary Smart; son, David Watkins; daughter, Amanda Watkins; son, Tommy Robinson (and many others who called her mom); grandchildren, SirVante Clark, Mia Dunlap, Jabez Watkins, Noah Ramirez, Jonah and Isabella Watkins and Paris Robinson; Spouse, Kenneth McFarland (and extended family).
Melissa would be the first to help anyone and, after passing, left the greatest gift of all, donations to LifeShare. In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to GoFundMe,
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Published on August 9, 2019
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Aug 13, 2019
My best friend.. from our young age of 12 till now. I'm having a real hard time with your passing. We had a great plan to move in together when we got old. Lol ok older .and dit on our porch drinking tea.. and smoking became my sister your parents mine. Thank you for always being you. You always helped everyone. Driving everyone around . I know your with the Angel's now. And yeah. No smoking I miss my best friend.. and my Older sis missy..
Sherry Summers
Aug 12, 2019
Kenny, ..sorry to hear about your sure she will be missed..Prayers for you and your family..
Lindsey Mcfarland
Aug 12, 2019
Missy was definitely one of a kind for sure. It's not often you can find someone to make you laugh on your worst days ever, or stand by your side when no one else will. Missy had a heart of gold and will be dearly missed. Love you mellissa RIP my friend.
Ashely Ward
Aug 11, 2019
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Aug 11, 2019
Wonderful memories of an awesome friend & family member. Another Angel for Gods Choir!!!
Aug 10, 2019
Ed and Pattie Phipps
Aug 10, 2019
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. You and yours are in are prayers.
Jo Lovely Rogers
Aug 10, 2019
So sorry to hear of your passing. You will be missed greatly by all who knew you. I will always remember your laugh. RIP Missy. I will see you on the other side.
JayDee Higgins
Aug 09, 2019
I have known her most of my life she was a great lady and she'll be missed rest in peace.